Small rant and rave!!!

Boys. You are so gullible and so stupid. While thinking how to approach this post I often had to stop myself from sounding like a raging feminist lesbo however these days I think life would be a whole lot simpler if we were to re-evaluate the relationships and dynamics that exist between male and female. I'm not denying the fact that girls need boys and vise versa, that when you're in love life is great. What I am saying however is that boys far too often test their luck and think its OK to say what they need to say if it'll benefit them in the end. There is the old argument about how can boys sleep with as many girls as they like and be considered cool or a ladies man while girls will be called slappers if they do the same.. (I think Christina Aguilera wrote a song about it!?) After a while it gets lame and everyone just wants the whining to stop but a friend of mine recently told me a story that made me think about this whole girl/boy saga and realize a thing or two.

So my friend got a random BBM request the other day from some dooshy name that she had no idea who it belonged to, but still she accepted seeing as Black Berries belong to 90% of our peer group and she thought she may actually know this guy. Anyway turns out that she doesn't know this guy but he is being chatty so she makes conversation. A lull in the conversation is experienced (no one wants a lull) and so to lighten up the convo and say good bye she sends "would love to chat but i'm watching porn.night". For most this would be inappropriate but this friend of mine is a little cooked and so she says whats on her mind or in this case what she thought would be funny. Anyways thinking the response would be non at all or a "night", she was surprised when Dooshbag replied with a "send me something, I'm horny". The conversation then went "like what?". DB: "I dont know, you tell me" friend: "easy tiger". DB: ok. Check BBM friend list 2 seconds later and Dooshbag has deleted her.

At first I didnt understand how this random got her pin or where he came from etc. etc. , but then she went onto explain how he'd got the pin from a mutual friend and thought he would just see if he could try his luck. I mean seriously who is going to start a kinky porno conversation with a complete random over BBM.. NO ONE. Well unless you belong to a late night escort agency. Now I want to know if i'm wrong in being super pissed off at this guy for having the balls to just push his luck, make my friend feel like a slapper and then the fact that he just up and leaves. I do blame her slightly for trying to be funny and playing along for a minuscule period of time but still, who is this oak and what makes him and other guys think that its ok to try with girls in the unlikely situation that it might end well for them!? Basically what is coming across is " I think nothing of you and dont care how you'll feel if I start being creepy to get lucky, and if not well you're not worth my time for anything else'.

Just a thought : If a girl was to approach you boys like this, yes at first you might think you've hit the jackpot but you'd also consider her a creepy whore. So what makes it Ok for you to try on us!?